Honouring Your Yesses and Your Nos.
This video identifies two things;
Firstly, in tuning in to whether we are a ‘Yes’ or a ‘No’ around something, we are a ‘No’ if Yes and No are the only two available choices. …”I’m not sure” is not enough to be a congruent Yes.
Secondly, as James is relating his own personal experience here, how many men have been brought up by society to believe or just assume that they ‘must’ want to be moving towards or after women, do we ever have a moment where we become conscious of these conditioned judgements, which would mean the absence of any genuine, authentic choice, and then decide to tune in and see how we really think and feel around something.
